It's 3 months till our wedding and my fiance told me he wants to postpone for a year or 2... He feels like I can be happier with someone else, that we've grown apart, he's not ready for commitment (even though we've been engaged for 1 1/2, and dated 2 years b4 that!), but yet he says we can still "date"...? I need some advice.. how do you go back to dating? Or can you? He's the man I wanted to share my life with, but now I think I'll be afraid he'd do this to me again. I asked if he still loved me..and he says "when we were happy." He's never voiced any concerns wtih me b4, we've had the normal rough spots and that's it. We even did premarital counseling! please help.. I don't know whether to give a second chance or just try to move on without him even though it's not what i wanted. If you or someone has been in a similar situation please share with me!