Hi friends,
So we are planning our wedding "celebratory" ceremony and reception and as usual I am getting myself confused with being all over the place and not narrowing down options.
Background: we met 10 years ago, long distance relationship (east-west coast) for five years, then moved to Bay area after getting engaged, moved to San Diego last year and finally had our civil ceremony in city hall in Nov 2022.
The civil ceremony was magical but part of me wishes I had done everything together as now it's so confusing to plan the reception and celebratory ceremony.
We were looking at destination weddings then thought to have it in San Diego..(no family/friend lives in SD).
We are trying to make a memorable intimate warm wedding night on a budget - preferably 10k; is it possible to do that with 60-70 guests? if not, with 40 guests?
Also, would it be terrible to not invite first cousins given the limited guest list, or not allow for family/friends to bring a guest if they are not married?
Any tips to avoid being so overwhelmed and narrow down options including dates, venue, etc. would be so greatly appreciated!
Best,
Dela