Hello everyone!
I am struggling with a decision regarding my bridal party. I think it is necessary to mention that I am an extreme people pleaser. It is really hard for me to say no to people and I hate hurting feelings or destroying someone's expectations. (I know its not necessarily healthy but it is what it is). Now, I have a friend who I have known since 6th grade who has been one of my dear friends ever since! We are 25 now. However, as the years have gone by I have noticed our relationship has changed a bit. I love her dearly, but we just aren't as super close. That being said, she asked me to be her maid of honor for her wedding coming up in June of 2021. I have already decided my maid of honor is going to be my sister in law/soul sister. She is my absolute best friend. However, I have become super close with another friend of mine. We work together and we see each other outside of work at least once or twice a week. She means the world to me, and she is also super close with my fiance. I want to make her my co maid of honor as well along with my sister in law(they both get along really well too). But I don't want to hurt my old friend's feelings by not making her a MOH. She is going to be on the bridal party, but I still fear I will upset her. What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading through! Xoxo
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