My sister has made drama out of every aspect of my wedding from getting engaged to stealing my thunder.
She was a covid bride and opted to get married and postpone her reception.
I got engaged in August and she decided to schedule her wedding reception in April 2021. I was supportive and fine with that because I know she was sad about her wedding not being what she wanted (I was her wedding planner and invested a lot of time in the plans for her day).
When I got engaged she ended up telling me before. She did this because she told my future fiancé she couldn’t be at my engagement because her sister in law was having a party and she didn’t want to not drink. My fiancé didn’t know what to do and was absolutely crushed because he thought she would be supportive of me and would want to be there. He asked me for advice on what he should do, so naturally I called her out on it. She then ended up telling me the day we were getting engaged out of spite.
Fast forward to October we went on vacation to try and repair our relationship with my sister brother in law and parents. While on vacation my dad got too drunk and ended up telling me he is “worried about my future because he feels like my fiancé doesn’t have dreams or aspirations” he also said that I owe all my success to him. After he said those things my fiancé and I left the vacation and came home early. For some weird reason that I have yet to know My dad forced me to apologize, he is really controlling and can never be wrong. I apologized in hopes to be able toMove on.
Fast forward to this past weekend it turns out my sister is pregnant and is due 10 days before my wedding. So now she has her reception and baby all in the same year I am supposed to be getting married.
I feel like the three most important people my sister dad and mom aren’t even happy for me. Things continue to go downhill and I am more depressed than happy about my wedding. I am now considering eloping. Am I being dramatic or would eloping be better? Thank you!
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