Do I cave in and have all the extras (that I do not want) or do it my way (fiance stands by me either way).
1) My mom wants me to have lots of flowers and to walk with a bouquet. I don't. I am having sunflowers, burlap, and lace.
2) His mom wants me to have a cake so we can feed each other and we can "smush" it in each others faces. I don't eat cake and they know that so the cake would be for everyone else. I told them I would make brownies. And if he did "smush" anything in my face I would probably beat him up. Its cute for others but not my thing.
3) I am trying to be simple and save money where I can since we are paying for this wedding not them. Why do they keep insisting I have things I don't want whether I could afford it or not.
4) How do I stop further mother in-law from comparing my wedding to her son to his first wedding? I know it happened. I am friends with his first wife. But I don't want to keep hearing what they had and how I should have it too.
UGH