Like the title says, I'm being a control freak. I want everything to be absolutely perfect. Especially colors. So im mor letting my wonderful groom have too much say. I consult with him abouteverything, value his opinion, but have a hard time letting go of the reigns.
Like I give him something to do,, and then when I don't like it. I take over.
I don't want to be like that, but all the details are just so important. And I want everything to be perfect.
Like I found out that he likes a certain type of music I hate...
We both have similar taste in music... at least until he started bringing up the other music I've never even heard him listen to before!!!
And then... he wanted to wear a certain suit color and tie (blue suit red tie) and completely ignore the color scheme I chose (shades of purple). And on top of that,,, he wanted to have his groomsmen weigh in on what to wear... I told him they don't have a choice,, he and I can decide together.
I really want a classic formal elegant look... I think a blue suit is elegant, but doesn't go with the color scheme and not as elegant as a black tux.
Can you guys please tell me what are some things you let your groom have full or most control over?
For you perfectionists, how did you have peace with letting your groom have control?
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