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Just Said Yes October 2021

Help- my fiance wasn't given a plus one!

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Kathy, on March 9, 2020 at 10:04 PM

About 2 months after we got engaged my fiance received an invite to a wedding happening in May. He did not receive a plus one and I was not given a separate invite- so I was not invited. None of the other friends in the friend group were given plus ones, but none are engaged.

1) Am i right to feel super insulted? My fiance doesn't think its a big deal because none of his other friends got plus ones, but I think being engaged merits a plus one- its a recognition of our partnership.2) my fiance wants to invite this couple to our wedding. Is it petty for me to say that I don't want them invited, or that he can invite his friend but not his friend's wife?
I've asked him to reach out to his friend and ask about the situation, to see if it was a misunderstanding that can be easily fixed. But I was really shocked and insulted, and need a place to let out some steam.

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Devoted June 2021
Caitlin · on March 10, 2020 at 7:33 PM
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Could it be possible that it was a mistake? This happened to my fiancé and I but it turned out to be a mistake.
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Legend July 2019
MrsD · on March 11, 2020 at 3:23 PM
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Anyone in a relationship (engaged or not) should get a plus one. I wouldn't attend an event that excluded my husband (unless it was something like a bridal shower) even if it was when he was my boyfriend or fiance.
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