Okay, so me and my fiance are living together, and we are getting married by the pastor of the church we attend together. We had our first Pre-Marital Counseling session tonight and the pastor said (I'm paraphrasing), "ok, so I've gathered that you two live together, I don't feel comfortable proceeding with the wedding because of that." He said we have a couple options, first being that one of us moves out. Second, that we could get a marriage certificate, and then have our actual wedding be more of a celebration (still having the ceremony the same exact way as it would have been).
Has anyone ever done this? What are the logistical pros and cons? We don't really want to move out (we have 2 cats and a puppy), and we honestly don't care if we're legally married now, we just wouldn't tell anyone besides immediate family.
Please help!
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