My sister is my maid of honor, which I am very happy that she chose to accept! However, she has some mental health issues, which have gotten much much worse recently. She actually just planned a suicide attempt last week (fortunately she called our mother before she did anything to hurt herself, but she had written goodbye notes and gathered/crushed a bunch of pills to take). This is her first attempt (and we are all very supportive so I really really really hope it is the only), as she had never had anxiety/depression this severe before. She is otherwise a very functional person and honestly, is very good at hiding her issues from everyone.
I am worried that me moving on with my life/growing up (getting married, moving forward in career, etc) is adding to her depression. Honestly, it makes me want to call off the wedding and just elope if there is any chance that it will make her feel better.
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