My fiancée and I are both Mexican and are getting married next year in July. I'm a VERY organized person and I like to have control over what I plan, especially events.
Both our parents keep getting on our case because we want to have our guests RSVP and we want to incorporate a seating chart. However, each time we try to sit and talk about our guest list as well as preparing save the date and RSVP cards their argument is "We're Mexican, we don't do that". I'm honestly starting to get very discouraged.
We both have HUGE families and for both my quinceanera and my sisters our venues were 100% full to the point where we had to take out extra tables and even then a bunch of guests had to stand because we were not prepared. We'd run out of food, and it was simply packed. With my fiancées family, his sister got married 2 years ago, sent out a bunch of invites and no one showed, she had a bunch of food left over and not even half the venue was full.
I feel like I'm either crazy and expecting too much or I'm being walked over by both our parents. I desperately need advice!!