Hi hi! So, I'm new to being both a bride AND a bridesmaid and need some guidance. I'm the maid of honor in a close friend's upcoming wedding. My question is: am I expected to foot the bill of the bridal shower? HIS mother is already hosting one, and HER mother came to me telling me she wants to throw one and asked if I would help put it on with her. Of course I said yes, but I'm just wondering what the underlying responsibilities that come with this are? Are we supposed to split it 50/50? I want to open this conversation with her personally, but also don't want to come off like a pauper. My friend has a serious affinity for the finer things in life and I know will expect an elaborate shower. Mind you, I'm already planning a very expensive bachelorette party for her. HELP!
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