Help !!

Oh my goodness... I'm so sorry. How far out is the wedding? Hopefully you can find another.

View Quoted Comment It’s not for a couple of years but we’re trying to get the big things out of the way so we can focus on the small details without stressing !!

I'm sorry this is happening. I would say it is really going to depend on the vibe you want for your wedding. If you want a fun party vibe then a church for the reception will not work. But since your wedding is still over two years away that should give you time to safe money for the wedding.

View Quoted Comment Thank you ! Our dress code has been changed to semi formal it was formal but we discussed it more, we’re wanting something a little fun but nothing to wild !

View Quoted Comment I meant like alcohol with dancing and a DJ because churches typically won't allow that. But by no means is alcohol necessary. I have never had a drink in my life, but some people feel you can't have fun without alcohol.

View Quoted Comment Oh lol, no we’re not allowing any alcohol at all !

View Quoted Comment Then I would say it's really up to you where you want to have it. My brother had an alcoholic free wedding and the ceremony was at the church and the reception was in an old train station where the bottom floor was converted into a ballroom and the top floors were offices. They had talked about having it in the basement of the church but decided against it because they wanted something more upscale. Options aside from churches, some other options would be hotels (usually have a food minimum though), a park, barn, country club, or banquet hall.