Hi All, I have a bit of a dilemma about my best friend being the MOH in my wedding. I asked my bf about being in my wedding and she agreed that she would be the MOH. Well we finalized a date for the wedding which is almost a year and a half away, she then mentioned that there may be a 5th birthday party for her niece who is out of state, but she will “double check” and ask if the potential party can be moved to another date. Besides that, my bf has a lot of other stuff going on with her family, looking for a new job and car, and dealing with mh issues so I don’t want to stress her out more. I also don’t want her to have to choose between my wedding and her niece but I really thought I was doing good by giving a year and a half notice.
At this point, I am considering making the decision to not have her as my MOH especially since I already have a Matron of Honor. I am considering also having a conversation with her about what she wants to do because I don’t want to regret the decision of omitting her from my wedding but I don’t really want to leave this ball in her court either. She also is known to reschedule our lunch and dinner dates a lot due to family stuff and has also been in plenty of weddings lately and made the comment of “I hope no one else gets engaged soon or has a wedding soon because I need a break.” Should I just tell her she is not in the wedding or see if she wants to make the decision to be in it?
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