I just got engaged in August and immediately started jotting down ideas for my wedding. One thing I jotted down was the possible members of my bridal party. This is what I wanted:
Matron of honor: my sister-in-law (fiancé's older sister) Bridesmaids (five):- four best friends from college- for the last bridesmaid, I was debating between one friend I've had since grammar school and my fiancé's younger sister (if my fiancé had more groomsmen, I'd have both)
Today, we celebrated my mother-in-law's birthday and at her birthday lunch, my sister-in-law said their cousin made her the matron of honor for her upcoming wedding. She was complaining about not wanting the responsibilities of the MOH and how their cousin was expecting so much from her. She was also complaining about feeling weird about the rest of the bridal party because she didn't know anyone else and was worried if they were b*****s or whatnot.
Now, I'm scared to ask her to be my MOH. Any advice or input?
Also, how far ahead should I ask these women to be a part of my bridal party? I'm not planning on having my church wedding until 2023.
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