I am on a strict budget and photographers in this area are very pricey. Took me a while to find one that has photos that I like and that I can afford. Or that has lighting for after dark, I couldn't believe how many I found that couldn't accommodate a nighttime wedding. I really like this photographer's photos and he offers everything I want for the budget I have. Problem is, he is about 2 hours from us. Everything I have read about booking a photographer is to meet them first. I would take a day and go for a ride but my FMIL just had a stroke and my FH and I are her only family and between work, step daughter, and FMIL there is no time for a road trip. How horrible is it to book without meeting first? And since I cant meet him, what questions should I be sure to ask before I send the deposit?