"His Infidelity Was One Thing But The Baby Was Another"

Nope. Baby or not I'd never get over it.

It couldn’t last period because I have zero tolerance for cheating but in general cheating is something you can go to counseling and try to put it behind you. How do you put a child behind you? Even a deadbeat is forever genetically linked to a child, that child will always exist.

Nope!

I could see trying to work through it if it’s just the two of you but having to be around the child’s mother and having a human dependent on my husband would be too much.

Wendy will be fine on her own ❤️

Definite nope. I wouldn't even try to work it out if I found out my husband was unfaithful to me. Infidelity is something that would end the marriage then and there

Oh hell no.it wouldn't last thru infidelity at all. I am a hell no for cheating.

Absolutely no way. Infidelity in any way shape or form is a deal breaker.

No! Baby or no baby, it’s over.

I’ve lived through this. Fortunately his mistress got pregnant after we split so I had a little distance from it. She then ran back to her husband before the baby was born, and they are raising it as theirs. The worst part about this was my son thought he was getting a brother, and then didn’t with no real explanation.

But good for her for standing up for herself. So many times women forgive adultery and accept things they hate from people they love. A baby in that situation is a permanent reminder of the cheating. So sad for her and the child who is entering the world in that situation

View Quoted Comment I can relate to Wendy in this situation, I once dated a guy who cheated on me and while I was hurt I considered taking him back until I found out the woman was pregnant. Now if that man was my husband I don't think I could get over the infidelity either because we made vows to each other and they were broken.

View Quoted Comment I also have zero tolerance for cheating and I also believe that the longer you are in a marriage the harder it would be to end it over infidelity. I think leaving a marriage is easier said than done.

View Quoted Comment I'm with you on this one, the daily reminder of the infidelity would slot eat at me.

View Quoted Comment I understand your perspective. Although I also think everyone says that until it happens to them.

View Quoted Comment Infidelity is also one of my deal breakers.

View Quoted Comment I understand your perspective.

View Quoted Comment What if your husband was truly apologetic and vowed to never step out of the marriage again?

View Quoted Comment Can you elaborate on your stance?

View Quoted Comment How did you and your husband get past the infidelity?

View Quoted Comment Absolutely not. I know there are women that are able to move past this but I am not one of those women.

View Quoted Comment We didn’t. We divorced shortly after that. Now I’m getting married again and have never been happier.

View Quoted Comment If you cheat on your spouse/SO, in my opinion, it’s because you are missing something in your relationship. Or that person no longer fills a need you have. So why stay together? Sometimes people change and grow apart, but the person who did nothing wrong should not have to change something about themselves to fill a need for a person who steps out on their spouse/SO. Some couples maybe able to make it work. I, however, don’t think I could.