We recently decided to plan to have our ceremony and reception at my fiance's mother's home. She has a beautiful home with lovely scenery, and I've always wanted to get married here ever since marriage became a part of our future. I can tell she is excited to host and has put a lot of thought into the logistics of the day. I am very grateful to her for agreeing to let us use her home. I can see that there are some small improvements that will need to be made for the big day, mainly landscaping and some cleaning of the exterior of the home...nothing beyond DIY in my eyes. My fiance and his mother, who is hosting, believe that larger scale improvements need to be made such as hiring someone to aerate the yard and trim trees with professional equipment. My mother is paying for my wedding, but I'm not sure these expenses fall to her responsibility especially because I am happy with the way the location would look with a few small DIY fixes. However, my fiance insists that it's his mom's home and these are the things that would make her comfortable hosting so it's not our decision and she shouldn't have to pay for them. We stand to save money by having a backyard wedding, although there will still be many things to rent and that will add up quickly. My fear is that we end up looking at the same pricetag for our backyard wedding as we would have our next choice of venue. Any advice on how to approach this situation, who pays, etc.? I'm trying to take as objective an approach as possible
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