Honeymoon fund jar or no?

No no no no nooooo

It is tacky, you're right. Skip it

No no and no.

Skip it.

No

No

Panhandling at your wedding is extremely tacky and rude

If people want to give you money, they'll put it in a card for you. Asking for even more is rude and ungrateful.

Nope. Your guests should not have to pull out their wallets at your wedding.

Both are very tacky

So in my family it is tradition to do the $$ dance. Which I hate. So we are putting a honeymoon fund jar by the card table and we are not expecting anything. But it's my way around it

Extremely tacky. Have a jar in your home and put your loose change/bills in it. Voila! Honeymoon jar.

A money jar??????????? HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Of course it's tacky. You're panhandling. Why tf would panhandling ever be appropriate at a party you obviously spent thousands of dollars to throw?!

Don't do this.

Brittany, that's still panhandling

It's only tacky to some people. My family is very accepting of honeyfunds. Some families are not accepting.

Omfg this is worse than the website. Ugh. A tip jar????

ETA: words

Hell NOOOOOOOO! don't dance for $ and please don't have a jar!

Both the jar and the dance are tacky. I'd put the jar faaaaaaaar away from my wedding.