Honeymoon Fund Jar?

It's tacky. don't do it.

It's greedy and tacky. If I saw a jar like this at a wedding, I wouldn't contribute. Besides, shouldn't the honeymoon already be paid off by the wedding anyway?

Tacky with a capital T

SO tacky. People have already come to your shower and given a gift, come to your wedding and given a gift, likely traveled, probably bought a new outfit, possibly stayed in a hotel... just no.

I considered doing it, but after I thought about it and considered all the things you listed and decided it would be tacky, so I cut it out. Your honeymoon fund can be the money they give as gifts?

I agree that it's tacky. I did a honeymoon registry and a traditional registry at Target. My guests were 50/50 in which one they picked, but a ton of people loved the idea of a registry. I think the difference is that a registry can be ignored and people can opt for the other registry. The jar, though, is right there in your face. And unless you're having a cash bar, most people wont bring cash to your wedding. So even if people wanted to contribute, they couldn't.

However, the jar itself is cute. Instead of writing "Honeymoon Fund" you could write "Advice for the Newlyweds" and have cute little pieces of paper for your guests to write on.

I find this tackier than money dances. Money dances are at least a regional thing.

Very tacky. Totally inappropriate.

I find it really tacky, although it could be perceived differently based on your location. Where I am though.... yeah I don't know that people would think it was cute. I feel like, these people have already given us a shower gift, and probably put a check in a card for the wedding, and in a few cases, even gave us an engagement gift. How much more can you suck out of your guests? Lol.

Tacky. Pintrest needs to really go away. There are so many rude and tacky things on Pintrest!!! Make it stop!!

Very inappropriate. dont do it.

Yeah, I definitely wasn't sold on the idea. Just wanted to see what others thought! You all confirmed my feelings about it being pretty tacky. So thank you all for the input!

We actually have on the back of our RSVP cards a spot for 'Advice for the soon-to-be Mr. & Mrs."

Very cute... but very tacky. I love the idea (and pinned it myself when I first started wedding planning), but I'd never do it.

FH actually brought this up awhile back because his cousin did it at his wedding. I shut him down so fast he had no idea what hit him! I agree with the others, this is just awful. People know how to give money--this jar is just offensive.

That jar is not even supposed to be for the reception.. It should be in your home for you to put loose change in. So rude to put this out at your wedding!

I would say it's pretty tacky. You already come to showers and the wedding with a gift and then are also expected to give cash? Nahhh