Honeymoon Fund?

View Quoted Comment Again, times are changing. A quick Google to Emily Post (first thing that pops up) shows that honeyfunds are an acceptable registry.

I was on the fence and didn't want to offend anyone as well. I opted to not do a honeymoon fund.

1. I came to the realization after my big birthday bash. No one knew what to get me so I got a lot of cash! And it dawned on me that, people will figure it out.

2. Yes, the credit card company charges a percentage, so you lose money that is given.

I did register for some small things for home like upgrades.

Just don't register for anything. It's rude to ask for money. I would never open a birthday card and ask where the money is. It's the same concept. If you want money then don't register and people will give you money and gift cards.
I also wouldn't throw my own bday party and hand the guests a list of things I want so the same argument can KIND OF be made for registries but the idea is that you only tell people when they ask. I.e. mom asks what I want for my bday I say "a new book came out!" ...... Not "hey mom, it's my bday so buy me this."

Does that make sense?

You know your guests and whether or not they would be offended. My husband and I received $5000 for ours, it was heavily supported.