honeymoon Fund/wishing well

I don’t know what a wishing well is. All the gifts from our registries were bought prior to our wedding. At our wedding we had a card box out where people put cards. Some of them contained cash or checks.

I just wouldn't register, and people will gift cash or checks!

I've only ever seen a wishing we'll at a shower for kitchen gadgets really. I wouldn't do one for cash. If you don't want a gift registry, either don't register or do a honeyfund. If you do a honeyfund you may be charged fees if you want instant access to it. If you can wait for a check, there are no fees.

I would decline a shower though since you are not registering for gifts.

I created a honeymoon fund through Travellers Joy. I like it because it looks like a registry and give people the ability to "buy me something". For example they can contribute money to a Gator Tour.

I thought about putting something like this is the invitations.

View Quoted Comment Registry information or gifts of any kind should never be mentioned in wedding invitations.

There’s actually websites where people can donate to the honeymoon fund. Acts like a registry.

Ugh, I've been dealing with this lately too! My fiance and I have been dating for the better part of a decade and have everything we need by now. We also intend to move quickly after the wedding and don't want to lug around a bunch of physical gifts. So, with these factors in mind, I just set up our registry at Blueprintregistry.com and only included two cash funds: one for our honeymoon and one a first home fund. I included a heartfelt note indicating no gifts were needed, but helping us launch into married life by contributing to either fund would be graciously appreciated. I still can't help but feel a little awkward about it since I know some people consider this to be a faux pas, but we really don't need physical gifts and have taken quite the financial beating throughout this process. About a week ago we even considered not booking a honeymoon because of the finances. We've since reconsidered, but may be modifying for a shorter trip. In our situation, it just seems like the cash registry is the best fit.

I like it....alot of people dont know what to buy and don't have time to shop. So a gift of money to help with the honeymoon sounds reasonable to me. Good luck!

Also using traveler’s joy! (A honeymoon registry website)

We mentioned our honeymoon registry on our website (not invitations). Wedding websites often have a space for you to link your online registries. We’re using withjoy.com for our wedding website. But there are tons to choose from.

I’ve never heard of a wishing well for a wedding but sounds cute!!
On our registry, there’s an option for a honeymoon fund so we added that as well as a house fund. We have a few gifts on there as well but think most people will contribute to a honeymoon or house🤞🏽😂

I'm thinking about it myself. Japan is not cheap and we have most things we need.