Hello everyone!
I need suggestions.. My Fiance and I bought a house last September. So naturally we have bought everything we needed and more. We have more than enough. A little background on the two of us. We are both under 40 years old. we have children from previous marriages. I had a wedding and a shower all planned by my ex mother in-law. I had no say in anything it was horrible. I was only 23. I married a drug addict. My Fiance was married also to a drug addict. They went to the court house and got married. He only agreed to marry her to get custody of his son. He was married less than a year. He didnt have a wedding like i did. He really wants a wedding. It being our second marriage we didnt ask for help we are paying for everything ourselves. Im sure our families are going to help. we havent asked and arent planning to. Please no judging we both had to rebuild ourselves and lives. Now we have a beautiful life our first home together. Our kids happy, save, and healthy. The past of drugs is in the past and staying there. So like I said I had the wedding and the shower. Like i also said we bought a house six months ago and dont need anything for our new home. My fiance works so hard and im home taking care of the kids since the virus. He wants to go away on a cruise after our wedding. Weve spent so much money buying a home and everything in it. And now spending alot on a wedding. I brought it up to my wedding coordinator that we dont need gifts. She suggested a honeymoon/ fund shower. I am looking for thoughts and ideas on this. I loved this idea but i dont want to come off rude asking for money instead of gifts we dont need.
Thank you for reading i know i wrote alot !
