Honeymoon tips??

Have you had sex before? The wording of your post suggests you haven't.

ETA: This seems super-personal, sorry. But it's relevant if people are going to give you advice.

No I haven't... My FH & I have decided we wanted to wait until the night of our wedding! @fallinthegarden

Try not to put too pressure on your first time and let things flow naturally

I wouldn't put too much pressure into having sex the night of the wedding, you're going to be so exhausted from the day. As for when you do actually do it: don't put too much pressure on yourselves and make sure there's lots of foreplay! Being warmed up is the best way to go

Honestly, keep your expectations low. There's a learning curve, your first few times may not be mind-blowing, and that's ok. You may also be a little sore the day after your wedding. Staying relaxed on the wedding night will help you prevent this as much as possible.

My best non-explicit sex tip is to pee before/after sex. Sex can increase your chance of getting a UTI, which are terrible.

Yup I agree with pp don't put to much pressure everything will flow naturally good luck

That is true @FutureHazel .... I'm dreading the wedding because we are going to be wore out afterwards! We're planning on just seeing how we feel because we may not do it that night but I didn't know if anyone had any good tips!

It can be very uncomfortable the first time so don't put too much stress on it being "perfect". Just take it one moment at a time. Y'all will build on it once you have a foundation.

Lube and foreplay. Don't try anything crazy your first few times. It's going to be intimate and sweet because it's with your husband, but it's not going to be amazing.

I commend you for waiting =] but yeah just don't have high expectations. Honestly don't dread anything, be happy and excited. Just let it happen naturally. I promise you that it'll happen and it'll be awesome. My tip would be to just make sure and have yourself totally groomed lol

We're going to take it slow and make sure we are both comfortable with everything..but I've heard some people say it didn't really hurt and then I've heard some girls say they about died..... So I don't know what to expect.... But I'm not gonna get my hopes up about it being perfect the first time..... Thank y'all for the advice!

I've heard if you use tampons you'd probably be more comfortable. But idk... can't really give any tips because I was super fast and having sex in high school so... lol. Congrats on waiting! Just don't think about it, enjoy your day and let it happen when it happens.

Also maybe a drink... if you drink to ease the nerves. Lol.

Yeah, I would agree with pp. I wouldn't expect the sex on your honeymoon to be mind blowing, or honestly even all that good since this is your first time. It will probably be painful the first few times, and you may be quite sore in the days that follow. I would also put a towel down because you will also probably bleed the first time.

I was going to suggest bring panty liners for after because you might bleed ; Bring lube and maybe try out different positions to see what works for you... Buy a book & make it fun!!!

I will definitely be packing panty liners...lol Thank y'all for the advice! It's definitely been helpful! I'm looking forward to it but want to be as prepared as I possibly can be!

Do not rush it, you can spend the rest of your lives perfecting it. You will be sore afterwards the first couple times but after that you will be fine. I suggest lube and panty liners as well and try to relax.

It is ok if it isn't everything you imagined the first time. Just relax. Honestly the first time is usually awkward and not enjoyable. You have to learn along the way and it will get better over time. Fell comfortable enough with each other to talk about things and discuss what you like and don't like and what you do and do not feel comfortable doing.

ETA: It has been a while, but I don't remember it hurting a lot, I did not bleed. The thing I do remember is feeling like "that was it?" afterwards. I waited until I was out of high school to loose my virginity and I guess I built it up in my head. Also I did not actually enjoy sex until probably a year or two after loosing my virginity because young guys take some time to learn how to please a woman.

It's a beautiful thing that you're waiting!

Don't be afraid to be open with each other about what feels good and what doesn't. It's a learning experience for both of you, and only you can help each other learn.