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Hunter
Just Said Yes November 2023

Honoring Bride's Deceased Parents

Hunter, on January 16, 2022 at 12:32 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 3

Hello, Beauties! I apologize in advance if I miss abbreviations. I can not find the "Lingo and Abbreviation" "sticky." I am trying to come up with ideas to honor my mother and father, who have passed away during my ceremony. I loved how my little brother honored them during his wedding last year, but I do not know how that could work since I am now the bride. I was a BM at his wedding. Proceeding the wedding party processional, my brother and I walked down together and placed a boutonniere and bouquet on my parent's "reserved" seats. We walked back up, and the bridal party processional began. The bride's parents exited with the arrangements at the conclusion of the ceremony. My brother is a groomsman and will walk me down the aisle at my wedding. My initial thought was to both carry arrangements as we did before, and when the officiant asks, "who gives this..." my brother would respond, her mother, father, and I. He would then walk the arrangments over to their reserved seat and take his place in the groom's lineup. I would most likely have my FILs escort the arrangements out as they exited. I would love to hear your feedback and suggestions!

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Latest activity by Sharon, on January 16, 2022 at 9:54 PM
  • Katelyn
    Beginner January 2023
    Katelyn ·
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    I love your idea, it's so sweet- especially the "her mother, father, and I" part!

    Here are a few other ways you can add in to honor your parents:

    If they had a first dance song you like, maybe play it before you walk down the aisle or see if you can walk down the aisle to it.

    They make charms for bouquets for small pictures, maybe get some of those and add your parent's pictures into it. Then they can be right there the whole time!

    Start your ceremony lighting a candle for them, and if you're having the ceremony and reception at the same place, keep it burning all night long. Or do the same at the reception, too.

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  • B
    VIP July 2017
    Becky ·
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.

    My dad passed away before my wedding, and this is what we did to honor him:

    We had pictures of our parents (with their parents) on their respective wedding days near to the guest book - obviously this only works if your parents and FH's parents are still married to one another.

    I purchased a locket and had a photo of my dad in it, so he could be with me on the day.

    My brother walked me down the aisle - when the priest asked "who presents this woman," he replied "on behalf of those who are here and those who are unable to be, I do."

    I danced with my brother to the song from which my dad got his nickname for me.

    Remember that that day is going to be full of emotion, allow yourself to feel what you feel - even if it's sad. It's probably going to be harder for you on your wedding day than it was at your brother's wedding (it was for me at least).

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  • Sharon
    Super September 2021
    Sharon ·
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    I love this idea!! It's so beautiful.
    I'm so sorry for your losses.
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