Honoring Deceased Moms

First, I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to both of you.

The first idea that came to my mind was that maybe you can dedicate a song to each of them during the reception, maybe dance with your family in memory of her. I'm kind of doing the same in memory of my grandfather, we are dedicating a song to him and I'm going to ask my grandmother, mother, aunt and cousins to come join me for a dance in honor of him.

I've also seen chairs at the ceremony blocked off in memory of the ones who couldn't make it from heaven. You could include their photos in your bouquet. You could also even do a moment of silence in memory of them either at the ceremony or reception.

I'm so sorry for your losses. One thing you could do is put a framed photo of each of them on their chairs at the ceremony. Or, like Sarah said, you could also attach a keychain to your bouquet with their pictures on it. You could setup a place setting for each of them at the reception and place their photo at the setting. And I love Allie's idea of doing a special dance in their honor! I also once saw an idea where someone sewed a heart made from the fabric of her loved one's shirt into her dress.