My FH is very private - he hates having anything online that traces back to him. He allows me to post photos of him every once in a while (I’m not a super active poster anyway and only have Facebook) but much prefers no photos of him be anywhere online. He does not have any social media (if that wasn’t already obvious lol).
When I hired our photographer I signed off that she had rights to all our photos, so she can post anything because it’s her property. Obviously this is going to be the case for almost all photographers so I went forward with it.
I was working on our wedding website and FH looked over and said “why is my photo there??” I explained that the website is the best way for me to manage RSVPs and give guests info, and I want a photo of us on the home page. He said fine but he didn’t like it (he asked if I could put a black dot over his face LOL and I said no). I also warned him that he can’t avoid wedding photos being posted on Facebook (not just by me but by family) and he said that at least it wouldn’t be tied to his name and therefore info about him.With all this in mind, I want to honor his wishes as much as is practical. An easy way is to just have 1 photo of us on the website. I’m also considering asking the photographer if she’s willing to leave our last name off her website and social media posts. From what I can see of her content it seems like a reasonable question.Any other advice on how best to honor my FH’s wishes?
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