Hi,
So I have kind of a difficult question I am hoping for some insight on from other brides. Me and my sister have a very TUMULTUOUS relationship, horrible fights even as adults. She has some serious issues, and She has always had problems with me since we were children, im younger, but its gotten worse as we've aged. We do get along very well at times, but only when it feels like I'm bending to her how she sees herself. Originally, I was going to try to make her my MOH at my mothers request, but she was horrible to me (45min late to my moms house when we were driving together) my first appt and called me a bridezilla bc I was hurt by it. Since then its been issue after issue, most recently, with her screaming at me on her birthday in front of a room full of people about very private and sensitive information. I honestly don't know how I can make her a bridesmaid, because she takes every chance to try to be rude to me, but I want to make my sister in law a bridesmaid, and I just don't want her to try to ruin my wedding. Part of me wants to be the bigger person, but i ALWAYS am and it never gets me anywhere. I am afraid to reward the ways shes treated me when she never apologized! Help!
