How Can Married Couples Make it Life Without arguing

Uhm what do you mean??? Everyone has arguments in their relationships at some point. it’s all about compromising and hearing each other’s points of views..

Honestly? You can't. In a span of forever you're going to drive each other crazy, lose your temper, and majorly disagree on things. What you can do is come up with a game plan to make sure things don't get out of hand! In 4 years of being together and a year of living together we've had three major near break-up arguments and too many squabbles and spats to count. My fiance and I have three rules we follow if we fight:

1. No cussing. We cuss all the time when we normally talk, but it's all in good fun. It's not necessary in an argument and it only leads to hurt feelings and stored resentment.

2. No yelling. I grew up with a verbally and emotionally abusive father so this is a big one. It helps keep things diplomatic and we take turns so we're not talking over each other to avoid this. When you're in the heat of the moment of yelling it can lead to horrible and regrettable things being said.

3. No physical displays anger. Obviously this one would be straight up abuse! No throwing, smashing, hitting, punching (walls or people), slamming

We try and keep it as diplomatic as possible but even still, we sometimes get catty and snarky in our anger which isn't great either. But the aforementioned helps keep it civil and somewhat level headed!

Good luck and hope it helps!

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Everyone is going to have disagreements. It’s impossible to agree of everything. Arguments and fights will happen, the key is how you respond to each other. We are learning a lot about communication in our pre marital counseling through our church, I would look into something like that.

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Hey! I would recommend going to premarital counseling, it’s really helpful in preparing you for marriage. It can help you understand each other better and learn to navigate situations that will come up in marriage

My fiance and I have argued plenty of times. All relationships go through adjustments. Arguing is actually healthy and helps your relationship deepen from just being surface stuff to having deeper meaning.