How did you know your fiance was the one?

I knew my fiancee was the one because I could not stop thinking about him when he wasn't with me. I literally would feel a sigh of contentment and would break out in a smile when he'd message or I'd see him. I just felt like I could be my true self with him with no judgment. It truly feels amazing to know I get to spend the rest of my life with someone who loves me for me.

I said yes because we've been together 9 years and in that time he has consistently been the most patient, loving and supportive person I've ever known. I've been married before and it was very emotionally abusive and toxic. When my fiancé and I started dating, I told him in no uncertain terms that I would NEVER get married again.

I know he wanted to get married long before I was ready to even talk about it. He waited, he never pressured me, and he said even if I never married him, he would love me forever. When I was finally able to consider remarrying without having a major anxiety attack, he took his time creating the perfect proposal. We went on a vacation to Venice, Italy and he proposed to me on a gondola ride, just as we passed under the Bridge of Sighs at sunset (anyone familiar with the movie A little Romance might know the legend associated with this). How could I ever say no to that?!!!

He has loved me through my best and worst times. He understands me, laughs with me, cries with me. He sees my sensitivity despite my very fierce and self-sufficient exterior. I cannot imagine any moment of my life without him by my side.

It's funny because after I met my fiance on our first date, I texted my friend and said I was going to marry this man one day lol. I've never said that about anyone... not even guys I dated for 3 years. Every relationship I ever had I had doubts. I met my fiance by accident after a blind date canceled on me lol. He called it and said he would be available if my date were to cancel and I was like oh no, he won't don't you worry lol. A few minutes later I got the email with the cancel 😑. So I was like yeah man, I can meet you now haha. I come to find out that he was a music teacher at a place I started taking lessons at that week and he was the teacher I was supposed to get (but his boss said he had enough young females lol). So yes, God had it in for me i suppose lol.

We have fun haha

His kindness, good heart, and integrity. He's a better person than me which sometimes makes me feel guilty. I can't really begin to describe how good of a person he is. Everyone who meets him realizes it. Very proud to call him my husband.

In a nutshell:
I showed him my Backstreet Boys cd collection and he said "I dig it". So I said "marry me and have my babies".
Here we are now, under 90 days to go... 😂

Well, I was a creep and lurked my FH on Facebook for about 4 months. 😂 We had a mutual friend and I saw him comment on something of hers and I just started lurking his profile pretty often because I thought he was super cute. He made a lot of jokes on Facebook so I found him funny as well. I was in a really complicated situation at the time. I was already living with another man, but he was abusive and I was preparing to leave. I wasn’t even thinking of other men until I saw him, though.

I ended up finally meeting him at our mutual friend’s house and we had a really good time getting to know each other a little. That was on a Saturday, and the Monday after he added me on Facebook and we also exchanged numbers. We spent the whole day texting. I met up with him later in the week and told him about my living situation. I thought he’d reject me and run away fast but he didn’t. He gave me the courage to finally leave my awful ex, which happened about 2 weeks later. I knew pretty soon after that he was the one. Who else would accept me after all that drama, and support me? I saw that he had a kind heart and cared about me so much despite not knowing me for very long. ❤️

He's the person that came along when I was 100% not wanting to date ever again. I am previously married and had bad dating experiences after the divorce and was convinced I was better off alone. He doesn't get butt hurt at my sense of humor, he's sweet and cares about me and loves my son like his own. He doesn't make the relationship seem like work 98% of the time lol. When I was previously married I tried so hard to be the person he wanted me to be. This time this is me take it or leave it and he took it.

I knew my fiance was the one since we met at work. He actually rescued me from heat exhaustion. He kept texting to check in with me and asking if I needed anything. At first I was coming out of crazy relationship so I wasn't seeking someone to date. His concern/caring, persistence on asking me on a date, hilarious jokes and a true gentleman acts what won me over. Plus he has kids too! I'm always smiling when he texts or calls. Just by hearing his voice my face lights up. The way we are perfectly ok with cuddling and not saying a word because we know how each other feels towards each other.

My fiance & I have been together for almost 2 yrs. But we have known each other since we were kids. Throughout life, we went our own directions & had failed marriages. Back in 2016, I found him on FB. When I realized he was 1000 miles away, it made me a little concerned. i was looking for the person with the same outlook on life & on the same page as I was. This guy met all of my expectations. But how would this ever work? He made the trip to Illinois to visit his family and came to see me too. After day one, my heart skipped a beat. I fought the feelings I was having because I had never felt anything like this. Before he left to go back home, he asked me to be his gf. 6 months later, I moved to Florida to be with him. We are planning our wedding this December in Las Vegas. It's my honor to finally become his wife. He is truly my best friend, my soulmate, & my rock. I finally know what being in love feels like & its amazing 😍

So crazy how a lot of girls who commented seem to have met someone after going through hell with someone else! Maybe we all need that to truly appreciate the good thing once we have it!

I was sick of the dating scene in NYC and kind of gave up on meeting someone to spend more than a week with lol So i decided to roll with it and just have fun. I would just go on 3 dates a week and party and travel.

He came out of a roller coaster of a relationship and struggled for a few months and just wanted to have company and have a good time. We were 100% on the same page. Well, we enjoyed each other's company so much that after our first no date-date we never parted for more than 24 hours. 3 months later i moved in and we got married on our first anniversary. It's been 4 years and 2 kids Time flies when you are happy and having a good time. Im on here because we decided to eventually have a vow renewal celebration.

There wasn't a set moment when I realized he was the one, but the things he did that made it known. I had just gotten out of a toxic relationship that had been going on for 4 years. We would break up and get back together..the last time we broke up he said that maybe we could back together later...It was pretty much just a silly high school relationship that had no future. I was a game he loved playing. After that I was done I decided that I was going to take some time for myself then along came the man of my dreams. He was so respectable and had kind manners. On our first date he drove an hour to my house and brought me flowers and asked my dad if he could take me out on a date. Another thing was he waited 3 months to tell me he loved me. He said he knew for a while but he didn't want to throw that word around so loosely. One condition I set when we first started dating was that we weren't going to be taking breaks unless it was for a good reason. And he respected that! We have been dating for almost 3 years and have never broke up once. I'm blessed!

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I knew my FH was the one after about two months of dating. I went up with him to meet his parents (a 1.5 hour car ride) and on the way up for the weekend, we got into a fight. We put on smiling faces for the weekend in front of his family and friends. When we got back home, he was dropping me off and I refused to get out of the car. In those minutes of sitting in the car, I knew that I couldn't let this argument continue because he was more important than any argument we could ever get in.

The first time he cooked for me! He is an amazing cook & food keeps me happy!! I knew I couldn't let this one go!

We have been together, going on 5 years now and we have been engaged over a year. And while I said yes over a year ago, I think it really clicked with me a few weeks ago actually.

We were roommates in a large house when we met, didn't have a close relationship and one day (5 months later) just clicked. Shortly after we moved out into our own place, so we have always lived together. I think that is one of the things I loved and a reason I knew I wanted to stay and stick this out. This guy has seen all of my crazy-ness, messy, no make-up, drama... And he is still here sticking this out with me. That has gotta count for something. We grew a life together and while everything is not always sunshine and roses, I love our life together. But...
Just a couple weeks ago, I was having a really bad day. This incredibly independent, don't call me Mrs, I can take care of myself girl... All I wanted was like a hug and to be with him. I didn't need to do it on my own, I didn't need to be independent. I actually can count on someone else and it is okay. That was when I knew that he was the one. Which is a good damn thing because we are getting married in less than 4 months people. LOL