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How do i choose which enclosure cards we need?

Abbie, on May 23, 2023 at 11:23 AM Posted in Planning 1 1

I need help with invitations! I am planning a traditional Jewish wedding for Saturday, April 20th, 2024. My fiance's family is Hindu so we are planning a Hindu pre-wedding event for Friday, April 19th (the day before the wedding).

I want to have people RSVP online and we will have all of the travel and accommodation info on our website, so I am thinking of including a "Details/Website" Card with the link telling people to go there to RSVP and check for details, etc.

My question is: How do we put all this in the invitations? In addition to the main invitation, should we have another card for the Hindu event? Or maybe a "Weekend Itinerary" Card? Does the Details/Website Card sound like a good idea?

Thanks SO much!!


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Latest activity by Michelle, on May 24, 2023 at 6:22 PM
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    Bear in mind that many posts have mentioned that a number of guests do not read the website, despite its popularity as a whole on social media. Regardless of age, some people prefer all information on a physical card. The only information that goes on the invitation itself is the date and location of the ceremony and reception (provided that they are at one venue). A separate venue for reception will have a separate card with that address. If you have a cultural/religious event in addition, that needs its own separate invitation/information card. A details card is invaluable despite the current popular opinion that they serve no purpose at all. An rsvp card is required that is detailed with all of your options for communication of the reply (text, phone, email, in person, online), as well as explicit information of what your plated meals are. No one can guess what is being served if you say “beef/chicken/vegan” with no information beyond that. As an example: someone who doesn’t eat chicken in banquet settings because they experience it being undercooked which is not safe may typically opt for beef, but they think you will be serving a mid tier steak, not a lower tier ground beef or short rib and they may wish for the chicken instead that is going in blind, because there is no info on what the sauces or preparation is. Unless there is a way to order at the dinner table on the wedding day, which venues typically are unable to do, then guests are stuck and food goes to waste. Guests need a place to be made aware that they can request accommodation for dietary restrictions, because some people will not say anything due to being polite if the option is not available.


    The more information you can include in the invitation packet, the better. Many people will not read the website. Regardless if you send a postcard invitation or a full packet, do not include registry information.
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