We are almost a month away from the big day! And we are so SO excited! We are almost done buying small things that are needed, and we've paid for almost everything ourselves..but since the day we announced the actual date of marriage, my mother has done nothing but attempt to make it about herself, to the point where I've had to take a break from her multiple times over the past 6 months and cut off contact. She even gave me an ultimatum on my dad being there(who is walking me down the aisle), or her being there, all because she was mad at him for a day. I have a cousin of my soon to be husband doing my makeup, and today, my mother lost it, because "how is she supposed to get her hair and makeup done while your off getting yours done?!?!"(talking about me being down at the venue getting my make up done and pictures taken while doing so.
I'm so exhausted from trying to please her, my fiance and I cant make a decision without her undermining our opinions. I cant go a day without getting a call, telling me she has a better idea about something that we do. I know its stressing my fiance out because I'm stressed, and honestly, I'm just ready for the week long honeymoon.
There's so much more that has happened in the past 6 months that I cant even begin to explain. She also bought centerpieces, a guestbook(that we didnt want and told her not to buy because we wanted one that hangs on the wall) and so much more without asking or even seeing if we had bought any of those things yet.
Every dress fitting, EVERY SINGLE ONE, she made it so much about herself, the tailor had to redirect her attention by saying things like "well it's your daughter's big day!" And "but dont you think the dress looks so beautiful on her?"
How do I handle this? Please, I feel like ripping my hair out and checking myself into a loony bin.
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