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Maria
Just Said Yes June 2020

How do i tell a friend who thinks she is going to Bridesmaid that she isn't one?

Maria, on January 27, 2019 at 6:26 PM

Posted in Family and Relationships 22

I have a friend who I am good friends with who is pretty much convinced I am going to ask her to be a bridesmaid. However I did not choose her to be one of my bridesmaids. She recently asked if I had sent out bridesmaids gifts to let girls know they are a part of my wedding. I said I haven't told...

I have a friend who I am good friends with who is pretty much convinced I am going to ask her to be a bridesmaid. However I did not choose her to be one of my bridesmaids. She recently asked if I had sent out bridesmaids gifts to let girls know they are a part of my wedding. I said I haven't told everyone yet, but didn't have the courage to tell her she isn't getting a gift. I know she will be upset, but I can't quite figure out the right thing to say without telling her that I just couldn't add her to the wedding party.

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  • Alexandra
    Super December 2018
    Alexandra ·
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    I would just be honest with her, but also include her in some other way... have her do a reading or something special during the ceremony...

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  • Deirdre
    Super March 2018
    Deirdre ·
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    Yes, this! Asking someone to do a reading is a nice honor. Asking them to hang around a guest book instead of enjoying your reception is not an honor or a nice thing to ask a friend.

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