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Caitlin
Savvy November 2017

how do we keep people from writing rude comments on our non-traditional guest book?

Caitlin, on November 10, 2016 at 2:14 PM

Posted in Style and Décor 31

so, my fiance and i decided our wedding colors are black and white, which also happens to be the colors of our favorite sports team. he came up with the awesome idea of a custom jersey with our last name and the number 17, for 2017, and have guests autograph the jersey with official autograph pens!...

So, my fiance and i decided our wedding colors are black and white, which also happens to be the colors of our favorite sports team. he came up with the awesome idea of a custom jersey with our last name and the number 17, for 2017, and have guests autograph the jersey with official autograph pens! then, we would frame the jersey and hang it up with our other memorabilia.

we have some friends and family members who are fans of the rival team, who would be attending the wedding. i don't care who people cheer for, i just cheer for my team and enjoy the game but some people get intense about it. we are worried some people will write rude messages like "---- SUCK" "GO----" etc. I would honestly be annoyed with this, as custom jerseys are not cheap and I don't think its the time or the place to play up the rivalry or write disrespectful comments.

Do you guys have any thoughts on this? I love this idea but I also don't want to look at rude comments for the rest of my life...

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  • Gracie
    VIP June 2017
    Gracie ·
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    Have a sign that says well wishes ONLY! Or something that reminds them to "play nice."

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  • Swin.
    Master June 2016
    Swin. ·
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    I think "play nice" has the potential for people to write even worse stuff just to be rebellious.

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  • GoingBALDwin!!!!!
    Master April 2017
    GoingBALDwin!!!!! ·
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    I would put a sign that states, "please sign our guest book jersey"

    Adults at a wedding should be able to realize this is your GUEST BOOK not just a jersey for kicks and giggles, and they should be able to handle themselves appropriately

    BTW that is SUCH a cute idea! Wish we were into sports !

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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    Definitely come up with a different guest book idea.

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  • Pszab
    Super May 2017
    Pszab ·
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    My cousin had a nice photo of her and her husband to sign around it on the white border

    Some idiot drew her a mustache!!!! Not sure if it came of, but one way just in case someone is a dick head is to see if it would come out with a tide pen for example

    Or get a black marker and color it in if the jersey is mostly black

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  • BlueHenBride
    Master March 2017
    BlueHenBride ·
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    I'd probably include on your guest book sign something along the lines of "keep it classy."

    I'm a Ravens fan and when my friend (who is married to a Steelers fan) had a baby shower and everyone was supposed to decorate onesies, I made ones that said stuff like "Excuse the throw up. I thought I saw a Raven's fan." I knew my audience and knew they would not appreciate a pro-Ravens onesie. I can't speak for all sports fans, but good friends should be able to set aside their biases and not write anything offensive on your guest book.

    That said, I agree with Swin. If I had a Ravens jersey as our guest book, I would think a "Go Steelers! Love, R___ & G___" message from my friends was funny and classy.

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  • Helene
    Dedicated January 2017
    Helene ·
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    Well they don't sound like adults if they can't be nice on your wedding guest book. :/

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  • The Trap Selena
    Master March 2016
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    @Zoe I've never seen the guest book out past the beginning of the ceremony...maybe that's why I'm doubtful it'll happen. I live in central NC...H is a Duke fan and I'm a UNC grad. That's one of the biggest rivalries in the country and the fear that OP would never cross my mind if we had a Duke or UNC guest book. I guess the only non-policing solution would be to remove it before alcohol is served.

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  • Allyson
    Dedicated July 2017
    Allyson ·
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    Can I use your idea? I have been trying to think of a guest book I could see us actually hanging in our house. I had one idea that worked better as an abstract than actually on paper. This would be neat. And I can count on one hand the number of people that will be invited that are fans of our rival. And she has way more class than to write something disrespectful. Good luck though. If there's alcohol involved the "stealing and burning" could be more of a reality. I did that with a group of friends in college on Halloween when a friend dressed up as a fan of our rival.

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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    You may want to opt out of doing a guest book
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  • M
    Devoted April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    I would surely hope adults know not to do that sort of thing at a wedding but you can either just voice how you feel knowing you cant control people or what they are going to put down or change your guest book. You really don't want people to focus on what someone puts on your guest book over your actual wedding.

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