How do you explain to the groom you want a certain venue?

View Quoted Comment Agree! It ought to be something congruent to both of your visions! And conducive to the season & weather!

View Quoted Comment Exactly!
Someone actually reads before they write.
Thank you!

View Quoted Comment He just wants beach and is stubborn!

He’s letting me pick at this point because he’s not getting a beach wedding! No one wants to come to a beach wedding in hurricane season in FL.. our family has expressed they will skip wedding and do reception only if wedding is outside! Our family is in 80’s
We are not young! So it has to suit the guests as well!

View Quoted Comment Unless moving the date is an option are there any venues that offer indoor & outdoor options that are beautiful and beache-esque??? In case of a hurricane you would have a lovely indoor option.

View Quoted Comment Exactly! Some men do not know the depth of wedding planning. Guests have to be comfortable too. It’s to hot here for our family to be outside dressed up for 30-40 minutes.
Plus it could rain, storm, hurricane! It’s totally insane to do outside for us!
To each their own! That’s not for our family nor us! We all have dreams! But realistically he needs to think outside the box!

View Quoted Comment I’ve spoken to 93 places. It is what it is. Our family won’t come to the ceremony if it’s outside. So our wedding will be ruined either way if outside! Sad.

View Quoted Comment What??? Whyyyyy?