My wedding is in May 2021 (not rescheduled) and while I am hopeful that things will be safe before then I am wondering at what point people will start contacting venues and making alternate plans. Our guest list is about 280 and I have 175 save the dates sitting in my apartment but don't want to send them until I know I will be able to have the guests attend. Is anyone else for spring 2021 starting to think of backup plans and what their timelines will be?