How Far In Advance Will Your Bridal Shower/Bachelorette Party Be?

My Bridal shower was 3 months from my original date.

I'm skipping a bridal shower because I simply don't need anything and can't justify the event, but my bachelorette will be 6 weeks before the wedding.

I personally did not want to have even more on my plate in the weeks leading up to the wedding than I already will.

My bridal shower was 2 months before my wedding my bachelorette will be 5 weeks before.

My shower was about 3 months before. and then the bachelorette was a month before

My shower is 4 months before, Bachelorette is 2 months before

My bachelorette party was a year before my wedding (thanks, COVID!) but my bridal shower will be about 6 weeks before my wedding!

My first bridal shower (my mom and dad's mom are each hosting a party so both my sides don't have to mix) is 28 days before my wedding with my bachelorette party being a sleepover at my mom's house afterward. The one my grandma is hosting is 20 days before my wedding.

My hometown shower will be 10 weeks before the wedding (this weekend!!) and current town shower will be 7 weeks. Bachelorette party will be 3 weeks (FH’s bachelor party will be 5 weeks). Dates were all chosen based on VIP attendees’ availabilities / didn’t want any of the events too close to the wedding or back to back weekends.

My bridal shower is a month before my wedding and my bachelorette party is 2 weeks before the wedding.

My shower was three weeks before my wedding. My crowd does destination/weekend bachelorette trips, but because I had destination wedding and a short engagement (4 months), my bachelorette was the Thursday before my Saturday wedding.

My bachelorette party will be the night before the wedding because I want all my girlfriends to join in. They're coming from Michigan, Oregon, Nevada, California, and Illinois and I don't want them to have to fly out twice.

My bachelorette party is 6 weeks beforehand! It seems like a good distance in advance - far enough away that you're not mentally elsewhere, trying to arrange whatever last-minute things are coming up, but not so far away that you forget it even happened by the time the day comes.

I told my maid of honor that I want my bachelorette party 2 weeks before our wedding so that we we be sound minded and not hungover and have a great time

View Quoted Comment See now you have ne thinking to have it 3 weeks before my actual wedding date

My wedding is beginning of October and my FMIL is planning my shower for end of August...of 2023. 😂


She's already trying to plan a buck and doe.

View Quoted Comment I think it’s better to space them out because I’m 4 weeks out and I have so much to do since my bachelorette is the weekend before 😩. I wish I scheduled that atleast two weeks before.

My bachelorette is two weeks before the wedding. Will be spending the weekend with my MOH and some family members. Going to a winery in PA.

My bridal shower is a month before my wedding and my Bachelorette is the weekend before my wedding.

My bridal shower is 2 months before the wedding and the bachelorette is 2 weeks before the wedding.

Not sure if I'm having a bridal shower yet, but my bachelorette will be in September, so about 4 months before our wedding in January. Our first couple's shower is also in September, and our second couple's shower is in October!

Since our wedding is in January, having pre-wedding stuff in November/December wasn't logical since most people will be traveling and doing more spending around those months!