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AndreaSTBG
Savvy April 2016

How far would you drive for a wedding?

AndreaSTBG, on June 21, 2015 at 7:36 PM

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Hey guys! So, I fell in love with a venue here in our town that is on the very pricy end of our budget. It's beautiful, but my fiancee nixed it because of it's cost of in house catering plus rental (he's still unhappy about the cost of the wedding itself, so I'm unhappy, but not necessarily...

Hey guys!

So, I fell in love with a venue here in our town that is on the very pricy end of our budget. It's beautiful, but my fiancee nixed it because of it's cost of in house catering plus rental (he's still unhappy about the cost of the wedding itself, so I'm unhappy, but not necessarily surprised). So I've gone back to look around, and there's some places that I really love and are much more budget friendly....but they're about an hour away. Now, the city I live in, it can take nearly that long to get from your house to across town, but before I proceed with looking at venues and recalculating costs, I wanted to know how many of you have gone to weddings that far away, and how much I should expect my guests to balk at the distance.

Thanks!

57 Comments

  • Lawmom
    VIP June 2015
    Lawmom ·
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    You'll be fine. Our venue was about an hour drive for 35% of our guests. Another 15% were from oot sbd we had a Sunday wedding with no problems. We did end before dark to be mindful of travel.

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  • Natalie
    Master May 2015
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    An hour would be fine to me. But I think what defines "far" depends on where you are from. Where I grew up outside LA, no one would think twice about an hour drive. But I have found that in New England an hour drive is considered far by more people.

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  • JCB
    Master September 2015
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    An hour wouldn't be a deal breaker for me. If I really like you I'd drive farther. I drove 6 hours for my friends earlier this year. I was in the wedding, but even if I wasn't, I'd still have done it.

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  • Brigit
    Master October 2015
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    An hour wouldnt be a deal breaker for me, i have done it afew times. i have actually driven 4hrs for one before (luckily it was in my hometown). i think it depends on how close i am to the person and what time/day it its.

    1hr no problem though

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  • Caroline
    Master June 2016
    Caroline ·
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    I think an hour is totally reasonable.

    I've driven 6 hours for a wedding before, and next year I'll be flying to another country for a wedding. If it's someone important to me, I make sure I'm there for them.

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  • Chrissy
    VIP September 2015
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    An hour isn't bad at all. I will drive 45 min to an hour to visit my friends on an average Saturday night. I would probably drive 2-3 for a wedding.

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  • purplekitten
    Master October 2015
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    An hour? Pfft, it takes me that long to drive home from work! An hour is nothing.

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  • Mrs. Bauer-*$
    Super May 2015
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    An hour is really a piece of cake. I would travel that for a friend or family member. I don't think people will be mad or not come because of that. Heck all of my friends and family had to travel thousands of miles for my wedding and they did it. Sometimes it's amazing what you will do for friends and family, everyone knows it is a special day and will want to see that.

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  • JaKLyn
    Master November 2015
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    I've driven about 13 hours for a wedding currently.

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  • EatKnitRun
    Master May 2016
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    I have driven 9 hours. Also flown across the country. Even in state weddings can be a 45 min-2 hour drive with traffic. My wedding is 1-2 hours from our geographically closest guests. I'm hoping they will travel that far for us. If they won't travel an hour for you then they probably aren't worth it (newborn babies and serious health problems aside).

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  • DeniseD
    Master May 2015
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    Toronto Canada, several times. It's about a 9 hour drive.

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  • CMH to CML
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    My FH and I drove 2 hours to his sister's wedding in Los Angeles (ceremony), down to Laguna Beach another 2.5 hours (pictures), then another 45 min to the reception. All i remember was being in the car, taking a few pictures and thats it! Honestly, I wouldn't do that again.

    However, if it was 2 hours at the same location and to be there for several hours, I would go.

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  • Original VC
    Master July 2015
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    More than half of our "local" guests will drive an hour and a half to our wedding, because we're getting married in Winnipeg and they all come from rural towns around the city. However, being from rural towns they're used to driving an hour or so to get anywhere. If most of your guests are from a big city, they probably won't be as comfortable driving one hour outside of the city.

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  • Pinky Winter Promise
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    Pinky Winter Promise ·
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    I'm flying across the country for one of my friends weddings (NC to WA). I have driven between 1-12 hours for a wedding in my own state (and out of state after I moved away). On that same note, there are some weddings that I won't be going to because they are far away (10-14 hours away) and I just can't afford to take the time off of work again and make the travel (we were invited to five weddings this year and have our own early next year).

    Our venue is about 30-35 minutes from the hotels (most of the guests are OOT guests) and 40-45 minutes from the church. We were told by some of our friends, that to do what makes us happy and the people who want to be there (and are able to be there financially) will find a way to get everywhere.

    An hour is totally doable!

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  • Amber
    Dedicated June 2015
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    I'd totally drive an hour... That's really nothing at all! Our venue was bout 45 minutes from my house, but most of my family lives 4 hours away. Everyone who wanted to come did and those who didn't want to make the drive didn't make a point to be there. The most important thing to me was that I got to marry the love of my life in the most perfect setting I could dream of! I've also driven 6 hours to a wedding before!

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  • JMthirteen
    Devoted September 2015
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    An hour is definitely not a big deal. We're traveling 4-5 hours by car to a wedding in November.

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  • Nugget Jamie
    Devoted August 2016
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    I think an hour is fine. My friends, both from the same city, got married an hour and a half away because they loved the venue. At first I was like "what the heck" but it really wasn't that far away and the venue was absolutely gorgeous. I'm sure you'd be fine with a 1hr commute on a saturday

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