I knew I wanted my sister to be my MOH because well, she's my best friend and I was the MOH at her wedding. So I had that one down...but then I had three more spots to fill and I knew I wanted them to be people I wasn't going to "lose touch" with so easily like I've heard people so often do.
My groom has identical twin sisters that are only a few months younger than me and they're beginning to feel like my own sisters, so I knew I wanted them! So I had two more down! Now for the fourth and final one...I was unsure because my best friend is a guy. And he's gay so despite people telling me not to or that it was weird, I wanted him as a bridesman and I saw no reason why I couldn't, it's my wedding!
So here is how I asked them!...With a delicious cupcake from a wonderful bakery, a ring on top with the words "It's my turn to POP the question! Will you be my MOH/bridsmeaid/bridesman?" They all loved it! One of his sisters even cried!
How did you ask your bridal party?
