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Just Said Yes February 2020

How Important is the Ceremony Date?

Zachary, on June 25, 2018 at 9:40 PM

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So this seems like a dumb question the more I type it out but I can't find an answer anywhere on google so I'm hoping to just get some opinions here. My boyfriend of 6 years just proposed to me this past Friday (6/22) and I'm already in full-planning mode. Our anniversary is 3/22 and we would like...

So this seems like a dumb question the more I type it out but I can't find an answer anywhere on google so I'm hoping to just get some opinions here.

My boyfriend of 6 years just proposed to me this past Friday (6/22) and I'm already in full-planning mode. Our anniversary is 3/22 and we would like to keep the date of our anniversary the same for simplicity sake so that means having the wedding the same day. The only problem is i'm finding that because it's less than 9 months away, almost all the wedding venues in our area are booked for 3/22/19. There is one specific venue that I have absolutely fallen in love with and is EXACTLY what I've always had in mind for my "big day." The issue of course is that 3/22/19 is already booked. They do have other dates "around then" that are available so this is my question:

Would it be possible for me to get married at the courthouse on our actual anniversary date for "official" purposes, telling no one, and then hold the actual ceremony later? I just want to know, in the long run, how important is the date of the actual ceremony if our certificate and all that says 3/22? Does it even matter? Am I over-thinking this? Lol.

I would like to mention this is a same-sex wedding. so almost everything we're doing is already unconventional--what's another thing? LOL.

thank you for any help in advance!


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  • Leandra
    Dedicated February 2020
    Leandra ·
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    You are totally right and it's your business if you want to tell people or not. I have had a few friends who got married at the court house and kept that private and held a public ceremony where nobody knew they were already married. Anyone who loves and cares about you won't care! Maybe your parents may want to be at the courthouse one but hey that's still completely up to you! Do what you want Smiley smile

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  • Suzie
    Super October 2021
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    I agree with PPs on not keeping your wedding date a secret if you do the courthouse route. If you found a venue you love, then imo that’s what matters more. We changed our original date bc everywhere was booked already, and to me booking the venue I loved was more important than the actual date. We were able to book the day after, on a Sunday, which actually saved us some money. Think of it as the opportunity to have a new anniversary that you can celebrate as the start of your new married life! Who says you can’t celebrate each other more than once a year too. Make a whole week of it! You could incorporate your anniversary now in some other way. Maybe your rehearsal dinner, or bachelor/ette parties! What better a way to come full circle. You also don’t want to have to lie about your anniversary every year.

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