How late is your venue allowing you to stay?

I am planning a destination wedding in the US no location picked yet. I am finding that a lot of venues are done at 10pm with a last call at 9:30pm. Because my FH family is coming over from New Zealand I want the party to be able to last till later. But I am curious to ask is how late will your wedding go? or How about you Brides that have already gotten married... Did you want to the party to last longer but because of the venue you picked it had to be earlier? if so I would love your feed back on what you did after to keep the party going or did you feel that the early ending was enough when it did end.