Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Christine
Savvy June 2020

How long did you wait to announce your engagement?

Christine, on November 28, 2018 at 4:09 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 64
My fiance and I have been together for 5 years this past September. He proposed November 8th, and we still haven't officially announced because he wants to wait. I on the other hand want to shout it from the rooftops. He is wanting to wait until he finds out about a specific venue he wants. I'm just excited to tell everyone.

64 Comments

Latest activity by Stephanie, on December 19, 2018 at 5:00 AM
  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    About 10 minutes hahahaha my best friend put it on snapchat, as well as my fiance & me! I posted several hours later then put my phone away for the rest of the evening. I texted my best friends too!

    • Reply
  • Devoted December 2019
    ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    We announced it same day! We’ve been dating since December of our senior year of high school, so it’ll be 7 years next month of being together! My parents, his brother, and his best friend were there when it happened, and we announced to family and on FB same day
    • Reply
  • Christine
    Savvy June 2020
    Christine ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    I have told my 2 very best friends in the world. But, that's it. LoL.
    • Reply
  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment

    Yeah we just see family & friends a lot so hiding the ring would be hard haha! We went to dinner with our families to celebrate after but we announced immediately.

    • Reply
  • PurdyAikey
    Super January 2019
    PurdyAikey ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I waited about a month to publicly announce it (facebook), but I told my immediate family 3 days later, and started telling people close after that (and I tried to tell everyone I was close with before posting it on facebook!). I honestly wasn't sure we were actually engaged for about 2 days! (it was weird: I said no, I said yes over the phone, I worked all day, I got home we celebrated, but it didn't feel real)

    • Reply
  • Christine
    Savvy June 2020
    Christine ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    I don't have a ring to hide, we are picking it out together. So, that makes it easier. LoL.
    • Reply
  • M&M Bride
    Super September 2018
    M&M Bride ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I got engaged on November 8th last year! We waited less than a day to make the announcement. Our immediate families were waiting at the restaurant to celebrate with us which was a great surprise. By the time we left dinner it was late, so I didn't get a hold of some close friends. By the next day at noon we had notified everyone that we wanted to and made an announcement on social media. We did have our venue and church secured before the proposal so we were able to share the date immediately. Congratulations on your engagement!

    • Reply
  • Kristen
    VIP August 2018
    Kristen ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I don't see any reason to wait for the venue. I called my mom first and posted on social media probably the very next day!

    • Reply
  • Annaruth
    Just Said Yes May 2019
    Annaruth ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Me and my fiancé got engaged a day later! His family already knew and most of mine too, so we announced it right away
    • Reply
  • Christine
    Savvy June 2020
    Christine ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    Thank you!! We do lots of things backwards it seems. LoL. We have a family, and house, and now engaged. I'm so excited.
    • Reply
  • Christine
    Savvy June 2020
    Christine ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    I would, but he asked me to wait, so I am. I am definitely on him about venue though. LoL.
    • Reply
  • Christine
    Savvy June 2020
    Christine ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    He did not tell anyone. He's a very private person, I'm the really outgoing one.
    • Reply
  • Brae
    VIP September 2019
    Brae ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    He had asked for my parents blessing and told my siblings, so they were all expecting a call. We told close family and friends same day, a few hours later when we could get reception. We didnt announce to social media until 2 days later.
    • Reply
  • dancingwiththekumars
    Expert May 2018
    dancingwiththekumars ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Ohh nah I could not wait LMAO. He proposed, and I called and texted all my major fam members and closest friends. I did not want them finding out from Facebook.

    Then I posted a photo of us on my FB and IG, so everyone could see same-day. We had been together 4 years and everyone was waiting for this.

    IDK how you're keeping it in!

    • Reply
  • Christine
    Savvy June 2020
    Christine ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    LoL, me either honestly. I suppose since I told my 2 best friends it made it easier. But, we plan on telling parents first, and social media for everyone else. We both have family all over the country, and it's easier to use social media. This is a picture we took the morning after he proposed.

    How long did you wait to announce your engagement? 1
    • Reply
  • FutureStephD
    Super March 2019
    FutureStephD ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    He proposed February 10th. FaceTimed my parents, his parents, my besties, and then he called his friends. We posted it on FB that night once all parties were "appropriately notified". Hah.

    We finalized the venue March 8th - two weeks to find a venue and really we just got lucky b/c I had a work trip in the area where we were getting married, and another 12 days to finalize the contract. My fiance actually didn't even see the venue at that time, but had stayed there before. I'm sure others would think that's crazy!

    OP, when are you guys looking for venues?

    • Reply
  • Christine
    Savvy June 2020
    Christine ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    We already know where we want. He wants to talk to the lady. She's a friend of his mother, and he said he'd like to talk to her, and book it before announcing.
    • Reply
  • Christine
    Savvy June 2020
    Christine ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Honestly I think he is postponing announcing just because of how private he is, and he knows everyone will try and put their 2 cents in. But, I don't care. We are planning this wedding the way we want.
    • Reply
  • A
    Expert August 2019
    Ami ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    We announced it on FB the next day, it was hard enough waiting that long! Had to make sure all the proper family and friends had been notified first. We didn’t even know what state we’d get married in at that point.
    • Reply
  • JustKidding
    VIP April 2018
    JustKidding ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I think 2 hours.

    we went to dinner with two good friends, then called people close to us, then posted on facebook.

    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×

Related articles

WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Learn more

Groups

WeddingWire article topics