My wedding is a week from tomorrow.
My photographer has an online portal which we can communicate through. The last time he used it was towards the end of June to send a questionnaire to get all the information for my other vendors, which I responded to.
On July 20th, I posted an update in there on FH's getting ready location and start time as we left that part blank on the contract because nothing was set in stone, August 18th, I sent another message confirming where FH would be getting ready and provided directions as FH's parents house is a little hard to find with just the address and provided them with FH's number incase the second shooter has trouble finding the house, I also inquired on if me getting into my dress at the venue and not the hotel where we're getting ready would be a problem.
I hadn't heard anything back or anything at all from him since he sent that questionnaire at the end of June. I sent him a message on Instagram this past Tuesday stating I had posted some stuff in the portal but hadn't heard anything back and wanted to make sure I was sending everything to the right spot. He let me know I was and that he was just getting caught up on emails after a trip to Europe, and sent me a link to schedule a call to go over timeline and other questions, but he would get to my emails ASAP incase they were simple questions. I let him know I don't think a call is warranted, as the questions are simple (if getting into my dress at the venue was OK and if he needed the bouquets at the hotel or if bringing them to the venue was fine) so nothing too pressing. I also let him know that due to being a type A bride I have 4 day of timelines drawn up (Bride, Groom, Vendor, General) and I'd be happy to send them over along with my shot list of who I would like pictures with and what combos we need the pictures in. He asked me to send the timelines and shot list through the portal and assured me again he'd get to my email ASAP. But I have yet to hear from him since this conversation on Tuesday.
Like I said nothing is super pressing, my dress is going to be at the hotel while we get ready anyway so if he needs/wants me in it at the hotel it doesn't make or break anything, but if we're bringing the flowers directly to the venue they need to be dropped off Monday with everything else. Should I give him till tomorrow to respond and bother him again? Or should I reach out again now?
I don't want to be annoying, but also having gaps in my day of plan is stressing me out a little.
