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Melissa
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How long was your entire wedding?

Melissa, on February 12, 2018 at 1:06 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 25
My fiancé and I just put done a deposit on a venue, but since we put down the deposit, it seems that we keep finding out new things about the venue. I just learned that the earliest we could use the ceremony space would be 5:00, and the latest you can use the reception space is 11:00pm. This means that the WHOLE wedding would only be 6 hours long from the beginning of the ceremony to the end of the reception. Does this seem like enough time?
It is not too late to get my deposit back.

25 Comments

Latest activity by Erica, on February 12, 2018 at 3:57 PM
  • Vivian
    Devoted April 2018
    Vivian ·
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    That's definitely standard. Our ceremony is 6-6:30, cocktail hour 6:30-7:30, dinner/dancing 7:30-midnight.

    6 hours is plenty of time, unless you're having a particularly long ceremony and/or cocktail hour. Curious - is there a specific reason that you think you'll need more than 6 hours?

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  • lilchameleon
    Expert April 2019
    lilchameleon ·
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    If you do photos beforehand, it should be plenty of time. My ceremony is at 5:30, approximately 15 minutes, followed immediately by the reception, which is lasting till 10pm.

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  • DC
    Super May 2018
    DC ·
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    That's plenty of time. Our ceremony won't even be 30 min
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  • Jen
    Dedicated November 2018
    Jen ·
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    That's pretty standard. Are you able to access the venue early for setting up, taking pictures, etc? Our venue is the same - 5pm ceremony, 11pm reception ends - but we can get in at 2pm to get ready.

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  • Katie
    Devoted September 2018
    Katie ·
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    That is about an average amount of time I’d say. Our wedding ceremony will be from 5-5:30 and then cocktail hour into reception will go from 5:30-10:30.
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  • Denise
    Expert June 2018
    Denise ·
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    We extended our hours with the venue for this exact reason. It was $100 per extra hour. We extended it until 2:00 am. FH family are West Indian and like to party/drink all night long! 6 hours total was definitely not enough time for us. However, this is pretty standard.
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  • Katie
    Devoted September 2018
    Katie ·
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    Also to piggy back on what Jen said, I’d definitely look into having time to set up and what not. If this is including set up time also, no I do not think that’s enough time. We have access to our venue starting at 10:00 in the morning but it’s also a venue that does only ONE event per day.
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  • Mrs. Fall Bride
    Master October 2016
    Mrs. Fall Bride ·
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    A standard wedding is 30-min ceremony, 1-hour cocktails, and 4-hour reception, so 5.5 hours total.

    But that leaves you with no time for set-up before the wedding or break-down at the end of the night, so do they allow extra time for that?

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  • O
    Master October 2017
    O ·
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    Our coordinator and DJ arrived 2 hours before my ceremony to set up. The cake was delivered one hour before. Our ceremony started at 6pm; we had the room until 11pm, but our reception was over by 10pm.
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  • Ashley
    VIP May 2018
    Ashley ·
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    Ours starts at 6 and goes until midnight. It does seem short but it’s really not.
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  • BlueHenBride
    Master March 2017
    BlueHenBride ·
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    Our venue typically has evening weddings begin at 6pm (ceremony) and have the reception end at 11:30pm. It was plenty of time.

    However, they began setup around noon for our wedding, and we had access to the ceremony area for pictures starting at 3:30. The ceremony space was opened for guests to begin being seated at 5:30. MFB makes a great point that you should clarify whether the 5pm start time means that's when you're allowed to get in to decorate/setup or whether decorating/setup takes place earlier in the day, as well as find out if 5pm would be the ceremony start time or whether that's the soonest guests would be allowed to begin entering and finding seats.
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  • Nemo
    Master August 2018
    Nemo ·
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    Our ceremony will be at 5, and we anticipate it taking about 30 minutes.

    Cocktail hour will be from 5:45-6:45

    Reception from 6:45-10:45 but I doubt anyone will actually stay that late! It'll probably end closer to 10/10:15

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  • Kiah
    Dedicated November 2018
    Kiah ·
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    Most venues give you 4-5 hours for the reception and about 30-60 minutes for the ceremony. We ended up paying $500 for an extra hour. We figured that after spending thousands on our wedding we might as well spend a little to get more time to enjoy our day. So our entire wedding will be 6.5-7 hours. But average is definitely 5-6 hours total.

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  • FutureMrsR
    VIP May 2018
    FutureMrsR ·
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    Does that time include set-up and clean up? If not, you're definitely safe. If so, it may be pushing it!

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  • Heather
    Expert March 2018
    Heather ·
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    Our reception is set for 5 hours. Start at 6 over at 11. We are having our ceremony at 330 so we have time for photos and to talk with our guests. We are also doing a private photo shoot before ceremony.
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2017
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    We had our venue from Noon until 12AM, but Noon-3 was for setup.

    Our ceremony was at 3 and lasted about 15-20 minutes (possibly longer because I dropped the ring and it almost fell off the 500ft mountain we were on and we all had to recompose ourselves after that gem of a moment). Took guests 25 minutes to get to the venue from our ceremony site, so cocktail hour started at 4.

    Dinner was at 5/5:30 and then we partied it up for the rest of the night until Midnight, so our reception alone was somewhere around 5 hours and it FLEW by. I couldn't imagine only having a few hours for the fun part if the whole thing is 5 hours.

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  • lindseybee89
    Expert June 2018
    lindseybee89 ·
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    Ceremony 5:30-6:00pm

    6-7 cocktail hour

    7:00-11:00pm everything else Smiley smile

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  • D
    Beginner October 2018
    Daniela ·
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    I think it all depends on the timeline you guys want. Our ceremony is at 5:00 and the reception will be over by 10:00. We decided to do pictures before the ceremony so we could enjoy cocktail hour with our guests. And instead of paying to stay longer at our venue, we blocked hotel rooms at a hotel that has a bar next door so we can all meet up for an informal after party once the official celebration is done.
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    Savvy September 2018
    Concetta ·
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    I feel you may be rushed I personally feel I need more time myself,maybe find one where you can use from Friday till Sunday,that’s what I did and I’m not at all stressed on time
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  • Marissa
    Expert August 2019
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    Our venue allows six hours for the whole event. It was one of the reason we chose the venue we did. We went to a lot of venues where five hours were standard.
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