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Hopiate
Dedicated May 2018

How many dresses did you try before you found THE ONE?

Hopiate, on June 10, 2017 at 1:13 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 61

I've been dress shopping this past week, and I've tried on 50+ dresses to no avail. The few I have liked, there's always been just ONE THING wrong. (My brother said one reminded him of a lace tablecloth. That was an immediate no-go. Hah. Sigh.) I'm just starting to wonder if my dress is even out there. Did anyone else have a similar experience? Did you eventually find the dress or did you have something made? I feel like I'm running on fumes here. Side note: I know I have plenty of time, but I'm going back to school to finish my degree in the fall, so I'm trying to get as much done before school takes over my life.

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Latest activity by Denise, on April 16, 2023 at 8:57 PM
  • Loganne
    Devoted October 2017
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    I went to one place to try on dresses . I tried about 7 on then found the one. All were mermaid and trumpet. I was completely against a ball gown, but once I tried one on, I fell in love. I originally wanted a lace mermaid, but I realized it just didn't look good on me.

    Try styles you don't think you'd like; you'd be surprised. Also, maybe don't shop with as many people.

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  • Katy
    VIP June 2018
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    I've narrowed it down to two but tried on a total of probably 25-30 dresses. Keep in mind sometimes ONE THING can be altered/added/changed by a seamstress. Maybe try making a list of the things that are requirements that you want and doing a broad web search then finding someone that carries it. Your other option is to go on Etsy or to a local dress maker and have it made for you.

    ETA: I agree with FireFighter Fiance. I was 100% against even trying on a strapless dress but I did and loved it.

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  • THEOCTAVIUS
    Devoted July 2017
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    I tried about 53

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  • Amy
    Savvy December 2017
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    I knew what kind of dress I liked but I told the consultant I wanted to try on all fits, styles and fabrics. I tried on maybe 10, and naturally did narrow it down to what I thought I would like. I'm glad I tried on the other types, otherwise I would have wondered... I love my dress and I have no regrets!


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  • hannahdee
    Super June 2018
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    About 10

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  • Beachy
    VIP November 2017
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    It was the first one I tried on. I searched online for months before I found this dress. I drove 5 hours to try it on. Other shops here could order it but no one had it to try on. I tried about 10 dresses on before deciding officially (I knew when I put it on that I loved it) that I was going to buy it. I came home and ordered it from the local shop.

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  • Cindy
    Super October 2018
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    I would say I tried on around 10-15. I didn't count. I'm 90% sure I found my dress... just need my parents to see me in it!

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  • KitandKaboodle
    Master November 2016
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    Not sure how many dresses I tried on, but I know I went to 6 different boutiques before I found both of my dresses.

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  • Hopiate
    Dedicated May 2018
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    @Firefighter the most I have gone shopping with is two people, so I think I'm okay.

    @Amy your dress looks great on you!

    I've tried on every style and have narrowed it down, thankfully. I'll give Etsy a try like @Katy suggested.

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  • She & He
    Dedicated September 2017
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    I think I tried on maybe 5. My dress was the 2nd dress. The 4th dress was very close runner up.

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  • Future Mrs.C
    Dedicated December 2017
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    I'd say, maybe a dozen.

    I can't say the dress I chose is a hundred percent what I wanted. I actually found "The One" earlier, but it was way beyond my budget, so I made a conscious decision to compromise.

    Think about the dresses you have tried and see if you can identify what you liked about them and what you didn't. Make a list- silhouette, train, material, embellishment, sleeves, neckline. Then see if you can find something which comes close.

    Since you have time, experiment a bit. Is there a kind of gown you haven't tried yet? Maybe you will like it once you try it on.

    Don't give up, there's a dress for everyone of us out there and you will find yours :-)

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  • Amber
    Super September 2017
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    I tried about 12 one. 10 at the first shop, and it was the second one I found at the second shop!

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  • LoveLoveLove
    Super October 2017
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    It took me a while to find my dress as well. I tried on at least 20! I love my dress but I didn't have a "this dress is perfect for me" experience.

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  • Victoria
    VIP February 2018
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    Over twenty. It took me three different appointments/shops to find it. It ended up being one my stylist at DB suggested Smiley smile

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  • Leo
    Dedicated August 2017
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    Went to shop 1, tried 4, found the one. To be sure, made an appointment at another shop, tried 10 or so, hated everything. Went back to shop 1 to say yes to the dress

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  • Bunnycita
    Super October 2017
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    I tried on like 20-25. 4 diff shops until I found the one. It was actually the last one I tried on. I didnt even want to try it on since I thought I had one I loved already... i was sooo wrong! I love my dress.

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  • BookcaseHat
    Master July 2017
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    I probably tried on a dozen dresses at each of three appointments, so somewhere between 30-40 dresses total?

    There were a lot of things I liked, but nothing I loved immediately. I even initially put my dress in the 'no' pile, but then kept thinking about it over the next few days and went back to try it on again.

    You might not have a big lightbulb moment, and that's okay.

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  • Dulce
    Super October 2017
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    It was the first one and only one I tried on, I found it when I wasn't even looking for it, that's why I'm sure it is the one.

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  • Brent's Lady
    Beginner August 2017
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    15-20...

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  • Janae
    Expert May 2018
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    I tried on 8... it was the 7th one that I fell in love with.

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