Can't believe I'm asking this! We're not sure yet, BUT FH and I have talked and we may be getting cold feet in regards to spending so much money on this 150 person wedding we're planning.
We're toying with the idea of a surprise wedding or an elopement, but we do want our nearest and dearest there. Can we call it an elopement if more than like 10 people are invited? Major con of a surprise wedding would be our loved ones not coming for a "less significant party," then being upset they missed the wedding. Just need advice on anything related to this--we're not 100% but my anxiety is through the roof and FH is developing anxiety. Has anyone done either a surprise wedding or an elopement with a larger group? Would that just be a DW? Sorry I really don't know and didn't want to turn to google yet. Obviously stressing!