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Tran
Just Said Yes August 2020

How many people give money at weddings

Tran, on June 4, 2021 at 10:20 PM

Posted in Registry 23

I went around my job and asked if people who attend wedding receptions “pay” for their plate/ or give a monetary gift at the wedding reception & the majority of the people say NO!!! A lot of them being plus 1’s and still don’t give any type of monetary gift at the reception. Is this weird???...
I went around my job and asked if people who attend wedding receptions “pay” for their plate/ or give a monetary gift at the wedding reception & the majority of the people say NO!!! A lot of them being plus 1’s and still don’t give any type of monetary gift at the reception. Is this weird??? Normal?? Isn’t it the unspoken rule of attending wedding receptions ???!

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I usually give money unless they have an actual registry i can buy off of. but a lot of weddings i been to didn't have a registry so i'd just give money.

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    Lady ·
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    If i'm the "plus one" it wouldn't even cross my mind to give a gift. Otherwise I give a gift based on how close I am to the couple and what I want to spend. Sometime it's $40, sometimes it's $200 - just depends on the event or person.

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  • Emily
    Savvy July 2021
    Emily ·
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    Hmmm I kind of get how you feel honestly. I wasn’t expecting people to give me $200 a head, but I did find it strange that a small number of people showed up with all their kids and gave a very small gift when I know the husband has a very high-paying job. If it was someone who was a poor college student ect. then of course it makes sense to bring something smaller. But it makes me feel weird when people bring a family of five and give a $20 when the husband has a six figure income in a small town.
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