How much is too much to ask for a bridesmaid to pay for?

My bridesmaids dresses were $100 and they thought that was pretty reasonable. That’s relative though, everyone will have a different price limit. If you’ve already talked budget with them and the dress you love is over their budget could you chip in to cover the rest? If not, I’d continue looking for something in their budget.

I did try to limit how much my bridesmaids had to pay for. I let them pick out their own dresses, just gave them a color so they could stay on budget. They didnt pay for the shower, and we did something pretty small for the bachelorette. I just felt like I didnt want them going broke over my wedding

Every friend group is different. I'd just talk to the girls and see what the most they can afford is, and maybe consider contributing if you want a nicer dress for them. My bridesmaids dresses were $89-$169 depending on the ones they picked.

I paid 200 included alterations

I had my Bride's maids get their own dresses, but I kept a "reasonable" price point in mind. They were about $120-130 with shipping (Dear Cleo).

I don’t think that’s a lot but if you want nice bridesmaid dresses under $100 check out the Infiniti dress... it can be styled in multiple ways and comes in array of colors.

$100 is not too much. It’s your day! When your bridesmaids accept to be by your side on your day they should pay for their dresses with no complaints even if the dress isn’t their style.

I told my girls that I wouldn't find a bridesmaid gown that's more than $250 and they were all okay with that.

My girls ultimately spent about $200 for their dresses at a bridal shop. We had done an Azazie try on and they liked those dresses too - I forget the price tag on those, but more toward $100 for sure. They all decided they liked the options in the boutique. I was a little uncomfortable with the idea that they spent $200, but I didn't think it was outrageous and trusted they would say something if it was too much (we are all mid 30's to early 40's, established with careers). I'm not requiring any special shoes or jewelry. I'm paying for their hair and makeup - not because it is required but because I want them to feel pampered on the day of. I didn't really want a bridal shower but got talked into one that would be more lowkey/potluck style without gifts (this will be postponed as my wedding was postponed) and a bachelorette idea was to do a cooking class. So, I think $100 ish isn't too much to ask but just keep in mind the total expenses if there are other things they need to purchase.

My dresses were $200 and they were ok with it

We have 4 bridesmaids total. 2 on my side and 2 on my finances side. We found two dress styles on Azazie we liked and my brides maids are wearing one and her bridesmaids are wearing the other. Both in the same color. The dresses were $109 each and we asked each bridesmaid to contribute $50 and we paid for the dresses at the same time.

I've been a bridesmaid a few times and each time the dress was well over $100, plus other costs associated with being a bridesmaid. I personally do not think $100 is too much for a dress. If you're concerned about their budget, also be upfront with them about other costs too--such as getting their hair and make up done, shoes & accessories if you have something specific you want them to wear, and aren't gifting those items. They also should be mindful of bachelorette party costs too. Traditionally, the bride isn't suppose to pay for her bachelorette party. Give them plenty of time to save. By now, most ladies know that being an attendant in the wedding is a costly. I think it's great you're concerned with your friends financial situation, not all brides are as kind. I'm currently in a wedding party w/a Bridezilla :/