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Dedicated April 2019

How not to cry on wedding day?

Emily, on December 17, 2018 at 12:34 PM

Posted in Wedding Ceremony 30

I know this seems like a silly thing to ask, but i am serious. I am a cry baby. Last night i was watching wedding videos and was full on bawling. I cry watching children movies, i cry when someone else cries, i cry A LOT. I am a very emotional person, as you can tell😂 i know it is normal to shed...
I know this seems like a silly thing to ask, but i am serious. I am a cry baby. Last night i was watching wedding videos and was full on bawling. I cry watching children movies, i cry when someone else cries, i cry A LOT. I am a very emotional person, as you can tell😂 i know it is normal to shed some tears when exchanging vows. I just really really dont want my makeup to be destroyed and look crazy in my photos. Do any of you brides have any tips on how to hold it together? From drinking calming teas, to breathing exercises i’m open to anything!
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    Emily ·
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    My fiancé doesn’t want a first look because he wants that special moment of seeing me walk down the aisle the first time Smiley sad
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    Emily ·
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    My fiancé swears he is gonna stay calm and not shed any tears, i say yeah right 😂 whenever my grandma cries in regards to the wedding i lose it too. Same with my grandpa, there’s too much love and emotions in my family!
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    Emily ·
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    I will definitely try this! Lol
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    Emily ·
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    Omg! When i watched a star is born i was a wreck. Even a few days later i kept thinking about it and listening to the sound track! Hopefully on our big day a wave of ease is placed over us!
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    Emily ·
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    Oh my goodness thats amazing! I hope i get that same calmness and i can hold my sh** together. I’m just so excited to marry my man!! The thought of us finally being husband and wife just gets me emotional haha. Definitely going to keep rehearsing our vows!
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  • Alexandra
    Super December 2018
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    Oh my gosh, I am the same way... just thinking about seeing my fiance down the aisle is getting me teary eyed right now! Or dancing with my dad... oh man!!!

    I'm telling my makeup artist so she can use waterproof everything! lol

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  • Sierra
    Beginner March 2019
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    Omgosh, I was just thinking about this! I’m a crybaby when it comes to certain songs, and when I speak from the heart. There’s a worship song that we’re set on, and it ALWAYS makes me cry... so I already know I’ll be bawling. Hopefully when we say our vows I’ll be all cried out, lol. Maybe reading through my vows the week leading up I’ll be okay lol! My poor pictures, I’ll have to invest in waterproof makeup!
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  • CountryBride
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    I am a very emotional person as well. I cry at almost anything....sad, happy, laughing, nervousness. My friends tell me I always look like I am about to cry. Def don't have a problem with dry eyes...no visine needed. I am so nervous about being a total mess crying the whole day. My brother will be walking me down the aisle bc my father has passed away. I am getting teary eyed just thinking about it. I was also going to do a brother / sister dance with my other brother but don't think I could handle that knowing it should be father/daughter dance.

    I need advice for not crying too. I am also very nervous about being the center of attention. I usually like to fade into the background but that's not going to happen. Ceremony will be the fastest we can make it within reason.

    Just realized my wedding is 5 months away and I am freaking out a little...not about being married but the actual day itself.

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  • Rebecca
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    I've just embraced the fact that I will be bawling Smiley xd I'm going with a touch up makeup bag and waterproof makeup. I'm in the same boat with y'all!

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  • Toniette
    Savvy July 2019
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    I cry a lot too...I think when it hits me hits me that I am getting married I'm going to bawl.
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