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How observant/judgmental are you as a guest compared to a bride?

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Michelle, on June 12, 2021 at 10:36 PM

When you are a guest, how much do you really notice or care about aesthetics/manners? Or do you only focus on the “guest experience“ of good food (regardless if it’s finger sandwiches or steak), drinks no one has to open their wallets for, and a great dj, plus gracious hospitality from the bride and groom? Does it matter if a couple chooses to skip centerpieces, chair covers, and a late night snack or any given combination of completely optional elements? Especially since no two couples have the the same tastes or budget, as long as they are gracious hosts otherwise. How do view manners from the couple as a guest as opposed to being a bride and observing guest behavior either at your own or another wedding?

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Jm Sunshine · on June 25, 2021 at 11:06 PM
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This should be the norm at any reception especially if there's not a reception line. (However, sometimes as a guest I feel it's obligatory rather than a genuine gesture.) I am not sure what the solution is, as I know there are many guests to attend to and it's not about the guests anyway. I'm just honored to be included knowing how expensive receptions are and that I was invited.
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anna · on June 28, 2021 at 1:03 PM
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I enjoy getting to at least say hi to the bride and groom and wish them congrats, and I don't feel offended at all if they can only talk to me for 5 seconds or if they only come to my table while "making the rounds." I agree that I also feel honored to be a guest period!
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