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Mrs. Spring
Master April 2021

How Often?

Mrs. Spring, on November 13, 2020 at 6:02 AM Posted in Married Life 3 60
I've been told many times that intimacy is a huge role in a marriage. A 2017 study that appeared in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that the average adult currently enjoys sex 54 times a year, which equates to about once a week. What is your ideal frequency to do that with your (future) spouse?

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Latest activity by Squeezy Bean, on January 13, 2021 at 1:47 AM
  • Jai
    VIP May 2020
    Jai ·
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    Mhm, I know for us about 4x a week so every other day. And every so often that may decrease due to stress or a medical issue, but when things are good its normally 4.
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  • S
    Dedicated November 2020
    Shakiyla ·
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    This is a good one 🤔🤔.
    We’ve lived together almost 2 yrs before we got married. On a good week we usually 4 or more times a week.
    On a busy/stressful week we are about 2 times.So i feel like we are good if we can at least be intimate twice a week. LolNow that we are newly weds it has definitely ramped up.
    I need to ask him and see what his thoughts on this is. 😂😂😂
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    Okay nice!
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    Yes, he may view the frequency differently than you lol.
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  • Jai
    VIP May 2020
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    This is so true! Agree 10000%😂
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
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    Definitely depends on the week and if our 2 year old will let us be great lol. But I would say 4-5 times on a good week 3 times on a normal week and if we're both tired 0-1 time on a bad week.
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  • Katie
    VIP August 2021
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    We have it once a week. Unless it's that time of the month. We don't live together, we live with our parents so it's hard to have sex sometimes. We are trying to buy a house so maybe when we live together we will be able to have more.
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  • Susan
    Devoted October 2021
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    We are at 2-3 times per week, I would say. I just had surgery and we couldn't do anything for 2 weeks while my body healed. Last night was the end of the 2 weeks, and let's just say, my mister was primed and ready and did not waste any time. Smiley laugh

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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    Woah girl you sure do keep track lol.
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    Yes girl, let it intensify until you move in together then BOOM! LOL.
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    Judith ·
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    Does it list the number of times a year done but not enjoyed?
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    Lol you go girl!
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  • Dana
    Savvy October 2021
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    We just do it when we feel like it... We're very inconsistent due to personal reasons so we stay intimate in non sexual ways when we're not feeling up to taking it to the bedroom. We both show affection constantly so it's enough for both of us. We do communicate about it a lot too so we both know where we are and that we're OK.
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  • Katie
    VIP August 2021
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    Lol I definitely think once we live together we will be having it a lot.
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    Devoted September 2021
    Samantha ·
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    We are living together before the wedding and we probably 2-5 times a week!
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    My fiancé is a medic/firefighter & he has a constant rotating shift. 48 hrs on & 96 off. We have made an agreement that during his 96 off, we will be having sex at least once!
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  • Jasmine
    Devoted May 2021
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    I would prefer 4-6 times... sometimes I initiate a little for that to happen. But most of the time it’s his preference of 2-3 times a week.
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    Lol! That would have been a useful statistic.
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    Okay Dana, thanks for sharing.
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    Lol as you should! Best wishes
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